My nine-year-old new lover disappeared after three divorces
My partner became a “confidant” Last April I was sick at home, and I often went to the square to dance.
My mood is jumping and my body is training.
I just rested after dancing that day, and a woman said hello to me, “You dance so well!
“I looked up at her, so young.
Then we will dance together later?
“She looked happy and said yes.
After that, Gu Hua and I got in touch.
She is nine years old and works as a temporary worker at a university in Wuchang. Her husband and children are near Wuhan.
As for me, there are wives and children after remarriage, but they are all in Jingmen.
After the dance, Gu Hua came to my house.
My second marriage is long gone, so although I am betraying my nominal wife, I am not ashamed.
I knew in my heart that the marriage would end sooner or later.
Separated for 14 years My second wife, Cheng Yu, has been married for another 14 years. We have been separated since we got married. I ran between Jingmen, Wuhan.
After I remarried, I didn’t want to have any more children, but Cheng Yu insisted.
She is very capable and takes care of her children while working at Jingmen alone.
I know I am really sorry for her. As a husband and father, I have not fulfilled my responsibilities.
But I can’t help it. My unit is in Wuhan, and my parents and son are here too. I can only run on both sides.
Running on both ends, in fact, neither side cares, and can not save money.
Cheng Yu had a lot of opinions on me. We remarried for 14 years and separated for 14 years. The original relationship was not strong. The continuous long distance made me and Cheng Yu’s relationship become weaker.
Gradually, she stopped making me count, and she became very independent, which made me feel even more dispensable in this home.
Cheng Yu was laid off the year before last. She left her ten-year-old son at her parents’ house and went to Guangdong to work alone.
This time, home is even more difficult.
I occasionally go to my home over there, and I can only go back to my mother-in-law to see my son.
I will return to Jingmen less and less.
Cheng Yu and I are both thinking about breaking up.
Gu Hua and I talked well.
Gu Hua said that she and her husband also had conflicts.
Perhaps because of loneliness, or because of loneliness, Gu Hua, who works alone, needs my care.
Her needs made me find the dignity of being a man and making me feel useful.
This feeling is very useful.
Gu Hua has been away for a long time, and Gu Hua said, “We can’t be like this.
“I know what she means.
I said then I’m leaving, anyway, that marriage is going to leave.
Gu Hua seemed to be afraid of responsibility. She glanced at me and said, “I don’t care if you can’t leave it.
“I said I divorced not because of you, but because I wanted to divorce myself.
Is this OK?
Seeing that she was silent, I said, “Then I leave, you have to leave soon.”She said,” Did I not tell you?
Your divorce has nothing to do with me.
As long as I’m not divorced, that’s a future thing.
I can’t promise you anything!
“I went back to Jingmen and divorced Cheng Yu. The divorce went smoothly.
The child gave her that Jingmen’s house was divided in her factory and should belong to her.
We have no property disputes.
After going through the divorce formalities, I drove back to Wuhan by myself.
Looking at the scenery passing by the window, it was supposed to be happy, but it felt empty.
I am recalling my two marriages and comparing two wives at the same time.
To be honest, compared with the first wife Afang, I feel more sorry for the second wife Cheng Yu.
Cheng Yu hasn’t enjoyed any blessings in the past ten years following me.
She loves children and works hard.
Because my parents and I didn’t have any support for her, she gradually became resentful towards us, and this resentment should be.
Due to my low salary, my parents basically subsidized me to raise my eldest son for him to go to school.
This makes Cheng Yu even more angry.
“He doesn’t have a mother?
Want you to do it wholeheartedly?
“My ex-wife, Afang, divorced me when my eldest son was one year old.
I am a crew member and often run out.
Afang and my parents lived together, and they often quarreled since they were married. After the child was born, Afang and them were even more lively.
As long as I was on a business trip, I walked on my front feet, and Afang took the child back to her family with her hind feet.
When I got back, I went to my mother-in-law’s house to pick her up and go home.
However, gradually increasing contradictions, when I went back to my mother-in-law’s house to pick up Afang on business trip, she refused to follow me home.
I also know that it would be better for a family of three to move out and live alone, but I have no ability to buy a house.
Self-confidence remains unresolved.
When the child was just one year old, Afang had sued twice to divorce me.
The second time, I agreed.
After the divorce, Afang came to see her two children. Gradually, she became less and less.
Now, I don’t even know where she is in the world.
After she promised to divorce again, Gu Hua became my center.
The eldest son is already working outside, so I don’t need to worry about it.
During sick leave at home, I don’t have to go to work regularly. I have a lot of free time.
Like eating, I called Gu Hua early in the morning and lunch, texted me, and sometimes went to her to find her part-time job.
I have always been an introvert, but in front of Gu Hua, I have something to say.
Gu Hua asked me to try to find her less frequently.
I said I wanted to do the same, but my legs didn’t listen.
I asked Gu Hua, when will you leave?
Gu Hua first evaded and later said that my husband was not a provocative character. I mentioned divorce and he wanted to hurt my family.
Let’s talk when we get old. On the 29th day of last year, Gu Hua was going home for Chinese New Year.
I don’t want her to go back, but I can’t keep her.
She didn’t divorce.
I bought her many gifts and passed her through the station.
The second day was New Year’s Eve, and I couldn’t see Gu Hua for a day. I really missed her so much, so I asked her the street where she lived.
Coincidentally, I met Gu Hua who was going out on the road.
She was taken aback when she saw me. I saw someone around her and didn’t dare to call her casually.
Gu Hua later called me, blaming me for not coming to her.
I said I didn’t want to spend the New Year alone at home, and I wanted her to accompany me.
Gu Hua said that I was unreasonable, but still promised to come and see me and walk with me.
The two of us were walking on the street and didn’t talk. She asked me to go back. I refused. She couldn’t convince me. I was so angry that I went back to the New Year.
The next day is New Year’s Day, and it snows heavily.
I wanted to meet Gu Hua. I was afraid she wouldn’t run out early, so I got up early.
I waited until early in the morning until noon, and I didn’t see her.
I was sad that day, standing alone at the roadside station, cold and hungry.
Call Gu Hua’s phone and shut it down.
I had to return to my home in Wuhan.
Love is entangled. I call Gu Hua’s cell phone every day and turn it off every day.
When I was in the fourth grade, I wanted a neighbour to help me call Gu Hua’s mother.
Gu Hua said, “Could you not call me!
I said, “Don’t you say that you have something on your hand to be operated on?”
I have contacted the doctor in Wuhan for you.
I think you come here earlier, I’ll take you there earlier and have the operation done.
Gu Hua listened, his tone softened again.
Gu Hua has a sarcoma in his hand, which needs to be removed by surgery.
In order to perform surgery on her, I rented a small room in Wuhan before the eighth day, and set up a gas bed and other daily necessities.
The operation was a minor operation, which cost more than 2,000 yuan before and after. I paid for it.
After leaving the hospital, I put Gu Hua in the rented house to make food and drink every day. Her hands couldn’t get into the water.
Gu Hua was very touched. She said that no one in her life had treated her like me.
I feel that my feelings are getting deeper and deeper.
I said, as long as you are with me, I will treat you every day.
Gu Hua said, then, well, I have no other requirements, we have to get married alone.
You buy a house in Wuhan.
I was so excited that if I could afford a house in Wuhan, Afang would n’t quarrel back to my mother ‘s house, and Cheng Yu would n’t be separated from me . I told Gu Hua that you can see my situation, II never hide from you.
Gu Hua said, that would not work!
Want me to live with your parents and son?
Is there a door?
She was awkward and noisy about going back.
I had to rely on her.
The house paid a quarter’s rent and ended up staying for ten days.The hard-earned money was thrown into the water.
Although I was distressed, I could only eat Coptis dumbly.
Gu Hua went home.
I have never seen her again since.
I used to recharge her mobile phone. I was angry and did n’t recharge her.
Her cell phone stopped naturally.
I’m not willing to lose my mind.
Gu Hua did not promise anything to me.
But I just don’t think it should be like this.
I don’t pay much for her because I’m not big money.
But what I paid is my dream. I feel that I have failed in my life. Only by winning her can it be considered a success.
But she avoided me.
She had already resigned from her previous temporary occupation.
Her mother and her sister couldn’t find her on the phone. In the end I rushed out and I called her husband.
The other party was very alert and asked who I was. I said I was looking for Gu Hua and what to do for her?
Find her . I lied, “She borrowed my money.
“” How much I borrowed, I’ll pay it back!
Pay it back now, you tell me where you are!
“I was on the street where Gu Hua was, but I didn’t dare to say.
I put down the phone and thought for a long time, I had nowhere to go, and went to Gu Hua’s daughter Yingying’s school.
These phone numbers and addresses were all told by Gu Hua and Hershey before, the speaker was unintentional and the listener intentional.
I found Yingying and she knew me.
Gu Hua took her to Wuhan before, and I took them to Donghu to play.
I asked Yingying: “Are your mothers at home?
I want to find her something.
“Yingying said,” Mom is not at home and goes to work.
“Where did you go?”
“”do not know.
“I returned to Wuhan with disappointment.
I know Gu Hua has an older sister who lives not far from my house. I found her older sister’s house again. Her older sister was not at home.
I sat in the small bookstore downstairs and talked to the owner.
They knew Gu Hua and said she was a nanny nearby.
And gave me her new number.
I was pleasantly surprised. A phone call came over. Gu Hua heard my voice and shouted like a ghost: “He Ding, you are nothing to do, you shameless thing!”
You also went to my daughter’s school.
I tell you, I live in No. 178, a certain unit in a certain district, you have the courage to come to me, you dare to come again, see that I will not peel your skin!
“I was thinking about this address in my heart, but I never went to her.